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The actual reason there are higher rate of divorce If you might be looking for far fetched causes of divorce, look no more and look within you, it’s very glaring to your face, but because of society fame and wealth,we ignore these reasons and so begin to scramble for unfounded truth. I will outline some of the reasons you can add yours,of course some of us know the truth, you know sometimes it is so bitter to hear the truth when we think of the advantages of our exploits. 1. Incompatibility: most people go into marriage knowing from the onset that they are not meant for each other, yet because of what they stand to benefit from their partners, they seem to close their eyes to the reality facing them. I have heard of story of folks who lost their lives because they journeyed on in the relationship even when the signal is red. Rule 1. Run from someone whom you know in the depths of your heart that you can not be able to live with. Stop looking for deliverance from men of God Almi...

5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy we all have our struggling days. Most wealthy people you know in the society today all had their struggling days; except you were born with a silver spoon. It is nothing to be ashamed of because as the Bible puts it: ‘Do not despise the days of humble beginnings’. One true fact is that you won’t even remember your struggling days when you finally attain success. If you were born with wooden or no spoons at all, you need not despair. Success is not only achieved by physical strength; it also has to do with your mental strength. Your level of rational thinking matters a lot, for without it, your physical strength will be equivalent to pouring water into a basket. I believe you know what that means. Below are some things you should avoid as a struggling bachelor: 1) BEER PARLORS/DRINKING JOINTS: It’s not a bad idea to visit a bar for one or two bottles of drink occassionally (that’s if you drink). What is killing is when you make it a ha...

Will we miss things from earth? Will we become angels? Will we work? Author Randy Alcorn answers the questions we all have about heaven.  When I anticipate my first glimpse of heaven, I remember the first time I went snorkeling. I saw countless fish of every shape, size and color. Just when I thought I’d seen the most beautiful fish, along came one even more striking. Etched in my memory is the sound of a gasp going through my snorkel as my eyes were opened to a breathtaking underwater world. As believers, I imagine our first glimpse of heaven will cause us to gasp in a similar way—with amazement and delight. That first gasp will likely be followed by many more as we continually encounter new sights in that endlessly wonderful place. Though most of us are in no hurry to get to our final destination, we all have questions about it. After in-depth study of the Scriptures, here are some of the most frequently asked questions. 1. We won’t miss our old lives. Have you ever bough...

Indonesian officers (R) from the city administration police detain unmarried couples (L-with helmets) after a raid in Surabaya on February 14, 2018. Valentine’s Day was banned in some Indonesian cities on February 14 as police rounded up amorous couples, giving the official kiss-off to a tradition that critics say doesn’t deserve any love in the Muslim-majority nation. / AFP PHOTO / JUNI KRISWANTO Valentine’s Day was banned in some Indonesian cities Wednesday as police rounded up amorous couples, giving the official kiss-off to a tradition which critics say doesn’t deserve any love in the Muslim-majority nation. The prohibitions come amid concerns that traditionally tolerant Indonesia is taking a sharp fundamentalist turn, by pushing to make pre-marital sex — including gay sex — illegal and punishable with jail time. On Wednesday authorities in the country’s second-biggest city Surabaya briefly detained about two dozen couples during a raid to sniff out any sign of Valentine’s Day...

National leader of the ruling All Progressives Congress, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, has lashed out at former President Olusegun Obasanjo and a former military ruler, Gen. Ibrahim Babangida (retd.), saying they should join what he called the retirees’ club and be collecting pensions. Tinubu said this while addressing State House correspondents shortly after he and a former interim chairman of the party, Chief Bisi Akande, met President Muhammadu Buhari at the Presidential Villa, Abuja. Saying he does not address “shadows,” the former Lagos State governor urged Obasanjo and Babangida to allow the present crop of leaders to move the country forward following their damning letters to Buhari last month, Punch writes. “I don’t address those shadows. We should let our former Presidents join retirees’ club and take pensions but they can participate in our politics if they are interested. “It is a free world but this freedom is not served a la carte. They should allow us to move our country for...

Some ladies could be funny when they react to people especially guys that they don’t have feelings for, well I have come up with some tips to know when a girl doesn’t love you. READ BELOW: 1. HER FRIENDS ADVISE YOU TO FIND ANOTHER GIRL:  Who would know a girl better than her friends? Once her friends drop subtle hints for you to find another girl, then maybe it’s time to do just that. Her friends would surely know she doesn’t like you back because you can bet your bottom dollar, they’ll have discussed you behind your back. So when they hint that you find another girl, it’s a way of telling you that your love object does not appreciate you and its best to begin hunting again. 2. SHE’S ONLY INTERESTED IN YOUR MONEY : If a girl is only interested in what your money can buy, then you must take to your heels this very instant. If she goes on a shopping spree with your hard-earned money, wants only expensive things that she can’t afford, and nags when your funds are low,...

According to a well-known Australian Islamic Scholar Imam Tawhidi, Nigeria is the most corrupt country in Africa and she is run by a terrorist government that harbors terrorists. The popular scholar who revealed this in a series ofTweets, stated the fact that the dreaded Boko haram terrorist group in the country is being supported by the government of Nigeria – Just like it is in Pakistan. According to him, If Boko Haram had been annihilated from the onset, their activities would not escalate up until this moment where they are, on a daily basis, K.illing and maiming thousands of helpless Nigerian citizens. The scholar is now surprised that Nigeria that gave the insurgents much chance to penetrate the society, are now leading the fight against terror across Africa. He wrote; “We have ignored Nigeria in the discussion about terrorism. Nigeria is the most corrupt country in Africa. It is home to a terrorist government that harbours terrorists just like the government of...

Be sure to guard against these 10 ugly habits that could destroy your marriage 1. Critical Please watch yourself and don’t get caught in the trap of criticizing your wife. Choose to see the good in your wife. Compliment her on all the things she is doing right. Next time you find yourself wanting to tell her something you don’t like about her, switch it around and pay her a sincere compliment. She will love it. 2. Controlling Believe it or not, you aren’t always right. And your beautiful wife is actually very good at making her own decisions (and typically she makes very good decisions). So stop feeling like you need to control where she’s going, what she’s doing, how much she’s spending and more. Instead of stressing about that, work together as a team, encouraging and supporting each other. Let your wife be her own person, and give her wings to fly. 3. Treats you like an object Please, husbands! Your wife isn’t an object. She is your wife, your best friend and yo...

Yahaya Bello, governor of Kogi state, has taunted the Catholic bishops who visited President Buhari at the presidential villa in Abuja on Thursday. During the visit, the clerics told the president that his goodwill is being depleted by “glaring failures”. Reacting after observing Ju’mat prayer at the presidential villa on Friday, Bello told state house correspondents that it is the corrupt politicians who are angry. He said since the Buhari administration had blocked avenues through which funds were looted, the corrupt can no longer pay tithe. “The question is who are those Nigerians who are angry?” he asked. “The category of Nigerians that are angry are those who used a private jet to cart away Nigeria’s money, in dollars, out of the country to South Africa (in reference to the case of alleged money laundering involving a former president of Christian Association of Nigeria). “I’m sure you are away that our money is still locked down there, such money if you bring it...